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Sibling-in-law

A relative by marriage through a sibling or spouse.

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A sibling-in-law is a person related by marriage through the spouse of one's sibling, the sibling of one's spouse, or the spouse of one's spouse's sibling. In Indian English, the spouse of one's sibling-in-law is specifically called a co-sibling (co-sister or co-brother). Siblings-in-law are connected by a type of kinship called affinity, meaning they are not related by blood.

Quick Facts

Type
Kinship relation
Category
Affinity
Alternative names
  • Brother-in-law
  • sister-in-law
  • co-sibling
  • co-brother
  • co-sister
Cultural note
In Judaism, yibbum allowed a man to wed his deceased brother's childless widow

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Lore & Background

Siblings-in-law are related by affinity, not by blood. The children of one's siblings-in-law are called nieces and nephews, optionally specified as 'by marriage' to distinguish from blood or adoptive relations. When one pair of siblings marries another pair of siblings, the siblings-in-law are doubly related—each through both a spouse and a sibling—and their children are double cousins.

Reader's Guide

The sibling-in-law relationship occupies a unique position between spousal and sibling bonds. One study found that relational closeness and satisfaction for all relationships in the triad of sibling, sibling-in-law, and spouse were correlated, and that the sibling-in-law relationship shared similarities with both spousal and sibling relationships.

In religious legal systems such as Islamic law (Sharia) and Jewish law (halakha), sexual relations between siblings-in-law are considered incestuous unless the spouse is no longer married. In Judaism, the custom of yibbum provided a non-obligatory duty for a man to marry his deceased brother's childless widow to produce progeny. These rules and customs highlight the cultural and legal significance of the sibling-in-law bond, which balances familial closeness with social and religious boundaries.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is a sibling-in-law?

A sibling-in-law is a family member you gain through marriage rather than blood, specifically the spouse of your sibling, your spouse's sibling, or the spouse of your spouse's sibling. It is a broad umbrella term that covers what most people casually call a brother-in-law or sister-in-law.

Do any religious or legal traditions restrict relationships between siblings-in-law?

Both Islamic law (Sharia) and Jewish law (halakha) forbid sexual relations between siblings-in-law as long as the marriage that created the bond is still in effect. Jewish tradition historically included an exception called yibbum, which allowed a man to wed his deceased brother's childless widow.

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